The Guilt of Happiness Relieved

How can you live your life the way you do?
How can you be happy?
What is wrong with you?

How can you be happy when you’re living off of other people?
(couches, floors, spare rooms)

How can you be happy when you receive government aid?
(Cal Fresh, GR)

How can you be happy when you have a chronic mental illness?

How can you be happy when you have been chronically homeless/houseless for years and years?

Why do you [think you don’t have to] suffer to make money to pay for things, like basic necessities?
(food, shelter, clothing)

Why would you rather be without?
What is this judgment about people with lots of money?

Can you see you may be mistaken about other people?

Can you see you are you and you have choices of what to do at all times?

Can you understand that the choices you make about your life and your money are up to you?

Can you receive your blessings in every form allowing the flow to come to you?

When your cup is filled, full, overflowing deservedly so

Let me say that LOUDER!


Dream bigger, darling(s).
You got this.



Love Be Like #43

“It’s like you’re my mirror. My mirror staring back at me”.
-“Mirrors” by Justin Timberlake

I am thinking about love today and how we mirror that love for each other.

All of us are mirrors for one another. And that is our loving service to each other. It is like we are place holders for the other.

And sometimes if someone is flipping out or blaming you/others for what is going on with them in their lives, you have to step back and realize it really is all about them. It is their perspective and how they view themselves. And we remember and know it is not about us at all. But sometimes it is.

Sometimes it is an issue you both share and it is there for you to see and not run away from. It is directly staring you in the face.

Sometimes the other is holding heart space for you (even if it is unconscious) to help you see who you are and where you are, whether that be deemed “good” or “bad”.

And sometimes when you love someone..the beginning love, the in it love, the shifting/changing love, the lover’s love, the so many ways of love.. that someone… the belove(d), reflects your love to you and you reflect their love to them and it is expansive, like mirrors facing each other that go on and on and on into greater and greater depth.